I feel like this hobby is impeding my ability to meet women.
How can I find ones that are okay around guns/knives
I feel like this hobby is impeding my ability to meet women. How can I find ones that are okay around guns/knives
I feel like this hobby is impeding my ability to meet women.
How can I find ones that are okay around guns/knives
Don't sperg about it until the girl is invested, then it doesn't matter. Never try and pick up a chic who is "in" to guns - ime they're trying to appeal to a common interest in order to nab a man/conceal some weird flaw/have psychological issues. Don't take advice from me, at this point I can barely stand women.
as 'investment' goes, I assume that means sleeping together a few times. I guess it's a matter of figuring out how to steer things to her place instead of yours
i love girls with weird flaws and psychological issues so much bros
Out here, a lot of women hunt and fish
Or at least their dad has a gun
Posing with guns is a red flag.
Do you gobble knobs
Or you got a stick up your cornhole
Probably women's jail
If you are ugly and weird it doesn't matter what hobby you have really OP. Even outgoing hobbies won't change people's perceptions really.
I have a friend with easily 3x as many guns as I do including a .50bmg rifle and all sorts of AR15s and he is a total pussy slayer.
>ammosexual is also an incel
What a surprise
>this hobby is impeding my ability to meet women
This most likely isn't true unless you're spending every minute of your free time shooting and doing gun related stuff instead of socializing. If it's all you have to talk about with women then it's more your socialization skills in general rather than anything to due to your hobbies.
>How can I find ones that are okay around guns/knives
Just find a good girl in general, if she's a keeper all ready then that means she's willing to accept your hobbies to be with you even if she doesn't like them. That being said, don't sperg out about guns when you're first getting to know them or starting your relationship. If she asks about your hobbies or it's pertinent to the conversation it's fine to bring up, but unfortunately being a gun nut is generally preconceived by many women as a mark against your mental state. Therefore, if the topic of guns does come up, do your best to showcase that you're just a normal guy with a hobby, not some autist with self defense/apocalypse fantasies.
how do i meet women regardless of gun ownership?
>meeting women
what are you, a homosexual?
women are gay.
moron. Guns are not your "hobby". Your hobbies are going to the gym and woodworking and shit that's actually normal.
Your guns are simply tools. You don't tell a girl about your favorite wrench do you? So don't tell her about your guns.
"Oh wow anon is that a gun on your dresser? I didn't know you had guns?"
"Oh yeah lol, anyways lets go get dinner"
Literally that easy. You only wanna tell women about your guns because its all your autistic brain wants to think about. She doesn't care.
if owning guns is your only hobby and you need to talk about it to people you just met you're probably the autism
you can meet people and make a connection and after say "by the way I have guns" and they won't care because they already know you as a person
I know that seems wild to people here because autism makes it hard to make a connection over something beyond a material interest but you should try it
>autism makes it hard to make a connection over something beyond a material interest
it also makes it uncomfy, that's why autists don't want to do it
you have to get out of your comfort zones, just how it is
need some proper storage if you have room bins..a safe is easily explainable
you only have to if you really want something from someone you don't share interests with, that's a decision each autist has to make individually
>anon why do you have a dozen of these stacked in your room and a big safe
>uhh, it's all beanie babies
>in your room
Step one is moving out of your childhood bedroom in your parents' house into a home of your own where you have multiple rooms and thus need not keep your entire life stacked up in plain view from your bed.
rent's due, piggy
Ehh, there were two guns on the wall of my living room the first time my now wife came over. It's not a big deal.
don’t be a mall ninja but don’t be one of those smartasses that tells you to settle and treat women like children, pretend to be someone else just to please her and avoid any reactions. So many men live by that pussy ass philosophy if she doesn’t like you she doesn’t like you
they do not care about guns as long as you are not a over weight autist
Don't let your entire identity revolve around guns or it's going to seem weird no matter who they are or how you present it.
You've got other interests, right? If someone asks you about hobbies, don't go straight to your gun collection: tell them about a musical instrument you play, or what you're growing in your garden, or something else that isn't just consuming entertainment media.
You don't need to explicitly deny having them, but it would be wise to avoid bringing the topic up unprompted. Whenever it does come up, treat it casually like it's just a side thing you do rather than sperging about it in detail like it's your reason to live, because if you make it seem like a big deal then they'll be more likely to see it as one too (and thus potentially a red flag).
It'll probably also help if you're an outdoorsy type and not an overweight neckbeard, but I'm fully aware of where I'm posting.