My gf is a petite 4’8” womanlet who is going to college an hour away from me. She’s getting stalked by some sperg with oneitis who won’t leave her alone and made sexual comments to her. I’ve told her to report him to Title IX, but is there anything she can carry to protect herself? She lives in a dorm and we’re in TN fwiw. A firearm is obviously out of the question.
spoiler: OP is the stalker
Condoms and lube
Pepper spray fucking retard.
Yes, even those little ones with keychain latch attachments will light you the fuck up.
Source: My ex got pissed at me because I was out all night drinking with my cousin and stumbled into the house at 5am. Bitch sprayed me with the shit I bought her to carry in her purse. It hurt so fucking bad dude
Did you beat her?
>I was out all night drinking with my cousin
Suuure
You talk like you never have fucked your cousin.
My boy cousin is a much better lay than his sister.
This but don't get the keychain sized ones, you'd be surprised how little is in there.
Your gf is in college anon, it's not going to work out so don't put too much thought into it.
Don't get too attached, anon. She'll instinctually seek protection from a proximate male - probably several. Before Halloween she'll have forgotten your name.
But don't take it personally, it's just human nature. It's not your fault and there is nothing you can do.
>"White man has been here..."
>"How can you tell?"
>t. Hapa
Pretty much
>Chang still can't accept that his beautiful little chink gf is giving it up for free to Chad and Tyrone
Many such cases.
A gun. The answer is just have a fucking gun. Stun guns don't do shit, she has no upper body strength for any kind of blunt weapon, she is probably not going to be able to effectively stab him, pepper spray does not work. I cannot legally tell you to break the law but if I was 90 lb frail woman I would just risk getting in trouble and stay strapped because getting in trouble is better than getting murderraped.
>pepper spray does not work
Yeah it does. For some deranged crackhead or hood moron charging you? No. For some spergoid at community college getting handsy? Oh hell yes, he'll start Rollin on the ground squealing
Again, life and death or adrenaline pumping, no pepper spray is not gonna stop them, you can power through it and keep attacking. But that is not what she's deal in with here. In this situation the dude is going to recoil and cry
pepper spray works well enough and giving a pistol to a frail woman is just asking for trouble because if she hesitates then there is now a gun in the equation even if there wasn't one before
a handsy college guy is not going to rape a girl at gunpoint and will probably back off when confronted with any non trivial violence
>I got a little on me one time and it kinda hurt so it will definitely debilitate someone.
This is the "Bro if someone even gets shot at with 22 lr they will run away" cope.
You are expecting a rational response from a person who is not rational.
You don't have to exercise your right to self defense against someone reasonable.
Does she have a roommate or a friend who lives in the same dorm as her on campus? The more obvious solution is to just avoid high-risk behavior. Deny him opportunities to try shit. Don't travel at night, don't travel alone, don't have a predicable routine, etc. Vary the route she take to her dorm. If he's sending her messages that make her uncomfortable just take proof to the dean of her department.
do you seriously expect a tiny girl who's never shot a gun before to put 5 bullets into a guy?
I know (You) can do it, but not everyone has this kind of decisiveness
sometimes "just shoot him lmao" isn't the most optimal solution for the defender
>do you seriously expect a tiny girl who's never shot a gun before to put 5 bullets into a guy?
If this guy is actually dangerous and her life is threatened? Yes.
It's that or spray some worthless capsicum juice on the sidewalk and then get her head caved in.
maybe my country is just too safe because outside very rare news I've never heard of insane murder hobos that shrug off pepper spray like it's nothing
but I know multiple people who successfully repelled attackers with it and outside light bruises nothing really happened to them
I even once helped one guy who's got thrown out of a club and sprayed by a bouncer, US army it turned out, some NATO thing
shit's really nasty, I'm telling you
She's not going to have a riot police-style fire extinguisher full of the stuff that she can use to hose him down. She's going to have some shitty keychain that has about a one second stream of indeterminate range and spread that may randomly become depressurized from rattling around in her bag. If she doesn't nail the dude in the face it's over.
>Deny him opportunities to try shit. Don't travel at night, don't travel alone, don't have a predicable routine, etc. Vary the route she take to her dorm.
I, too, would encourage someone I loved to completely change all the details of her life to avoid a sperg who almost certainly isn't even dangerous.
>redditoid "I don't want to tell my girlfriend not to engage in risky behavior" response
go back.
College girls are retarded and walk home alone from the library at 3 am. They go for night runs and to the gym in the middle of the night. They do things that a grown man would understand is probably not safe to do because they have no common sense.
They have to be reminded that this is not safe behavior for anyone, especially someone who is unarmed and has the upper body strength of an 10 year old boy.
I bet if she was walking around in her fucking panties and pasties you'd be arguing that it's her choice to dress how she wants and society just shouldn't produce rapists
i mean, yeah. people shouldn't be violating other people's bodily autonomy regardless of how they were dressed. do you even NAP bro?
OP here. Yes she has roommates, and I told her that the stalker sperg in question will probably pursue other girls in her group of friends if he finally gets the message that my gf isn’t available. Hopefully she’ll file a Title IX report today, but I’m not sure how many of his communications she’s saved as evidence. I would file a report myself on her behalf, but I’m not sure how serious the school would take a report from a literal who vs the actual female victim.
>but I’m not sure how serious the school would take a report from a literal who vs the actual female victim.
you should start the paper trail immediately so if the school fails to take proper action re: this you can hammer them legally (read as: sweet settlement monies)
also colleges are gay liberal hubox spaces, they take any offense towards women super seriously, they basically have to after all that "all men rape 100% of the time" propganda shit they started like a decade ago
Dude... Its a sperg who hits on her at school. Goddamn. Pepper spray will suffice.
I've been pepper sprayed, shit burns
If it's a harmless sperg and this can all be handled by a stern confrontation then she doesn't need to hose him down with pepper spray.
It he's an actual threat to her life then she needs more than pepper spray.
She isn't a fucking cop. There is no legal requirement for minimal use of force. If her life is threatened she should do what ensures her safety.
>There is no legal requirement for minimal use of force.
Yeah there is, that applies to civs too
This is a clueless fucking retard.
Reasonable belief that she is under an imminent threat of death or bodily harm is grounds for justified lethal force. That's it. That is even true if it is a cop. Escalation of force guidelines are rules that apply to cops that aren't under that threat. If some crackhead is brandishing a mall katana in the middle of the street the officer is not obligated to deploy his nippon steel and duel the crackhead honorably. Imminent threat=justified lethal force. IE a gun.
She does not have to do some kind of retarded guesstimation game where she must gauge how threatening he is and decide whether she should deploy her nunchucks or her CCW. If he comes up to her on the street at night and tries to grab her, she's justified.
>If some crackhead is brandishing a mall katana in the middle of the street
That's not an imminent threat if there is nobody around. If it were, then that same crackhead alone in the middle of the Sahara is an imminent threat as well. This is why she'd be off to prison for shooting the creep just for being in the same lecture hall as her.
>what if nobody ever saw him hold the sword?
smoove bwain, vewy cute, no winkles
>He also tried to flirt with her by offering to eat her out and grabbing his dick to show her how big it is.
This man is autistic. He is almost definitely on this board somewhere.
All you did was define minimal use of force, that's not an argument. You didn't rebut my point that civilians are required to use minimal force necessary. Fore example, if a civilian is in a fist fight with an equally sized opponent, they do not have the right to shoot them.
Yes they do. Just because they're equal size doesn't mean one isn't fighting to kill. If you're in a parking lot for instance, a simple fistfight is very well a fight to the death as the first one to have their head hit the pavement runs a decent chance at dying right then and there from the impact.
Oh right you can shoot anyone that punches you, yeah? No legal consequences to be concerned with
You were straw-manning, cope more
>double reply from same guy
Yes, you can. Fists ARE legally considered a deadly weapon. Sounds like you have some reading to do.
Lmao ok buddy, I hope your defense team has more ammo than that
>You can't be charged with murder for killing someone in a fistfight.
The smoothest of brains.
> Oh right you can shoot anyone that punches you
Unprovoked? Absolutely.
If you called him a moron first? Ehhhhhh
Being a moron is so fucking OP. You can literally take the 1st Amendment away from whitey by force. And if whitey defends himself you have the full power of the US Government behind you. 1st class citizens.
You're both retarded and it doesn't work that way. If someone calls you a racial slur and you physically attack them in response, you get arrested for assault. If you leave and they follow you chanting "moron moron moron", though, you can potentially have them arrested for harassment if you can prove it.
Yes and no. It depends on so many things. There's been instances where people have shot others trying to punch them, and got off Scott free, and other instances where they get manslaughter. It's totally up to the police, the laws of the state, the judge and jury, and the circumstances of the situation (random druggy hobo in the street trying to punch you, or your drunk trailer trash wife?) And also the races involved. You're a white man shooting a Black? Foegetaboutit you're done.
Luckily I'm not in this predicament because I'm a big strong guy who competed in MMA so I don't feel the need to shoot any belligerent or aggressive male that is within 21 feet of me. But if they start attacking me I might just shoot them anyways. Like other anons have said, you can still lose your life in a street fight. And people can still get lucky even against a trained fighter.
No jury would side against a literal midget woman if she shot some rapey mouthbreathing sperglord after giving him clear instructions to back off.
I don't disagree with that statement, but she still has to be in imminent danger. If he walks up to her in a student filled hallway and he whispers something sexual to her and she draws and shoots, good luck thinking the jury will side with her 100%. That's a coin toss and only because she's a roastie and he's a robot. Now if they're somewhere secluded and he approaches her despite loud verbal warnings to stay away, that's won't even make it to trial.
>You're done
Actual case law says otherwise. If Tyrese decides to play the knockout game with Neville and Neville shoots him in response, Neville won't serve jail time or even be arrested in most of the US. The case usually cited as an exception to this was one where the participants engaged in mutual combat, on camera, and Tyrese was shot in the back as he was leaving.
>Oh right you can shoot anyone that punches you, yeah? No legal consequences to be concerned with
If some gay runs up on you in the street at night and starts swinging, abso-fucking-lutely. If this asshole has been stalking you, even moreso. Are you a literal european?
>I'm not wrong if I generalize instead of talking about the subject of the thread
What is the subject of this thread, mongoloid?
What are we talking about here?
Is it about a 4'8" woman potentially defending herself from a grown man?
Or is it about two grown men deciding to mutually engage in a fist fight?
Scroll up, moron. Tell me.
To add, OP's post is complete horseshit and bait so I mostly just ignored it, and even in this bullshit story, minimal use of force would still be required. It just so happens that the threshold is much lower in "her case" because she's more easily at risk of death or serious injury, as you alluded to. However, that still fits in to minimal use of force as a concept, and doesn't contradict it.
She can't do anything to him at all if he's just in the same lecture hall as him.
If she uses pepper spray/a club/a knife/a taser she is still committing what the state considers assault with a deadly weapon against him. There isn't a lowered standard for using force with a "nonlethal". She is protected from prosecution/conviction by the state's self defense statutes as long as she had a reasonable fear of death or bodily harm. Carrying a nonlethal and using it for self defense is just choosing to use something retarded that probably won't save her instead of a gun.
If you say something like "I only tased him, I could have shot him but I wasn't really that scared" you're fucked, bro. You're going to jail.
>sticking around instead of just leaving
Dumb behavior.
>She can't do anything to him at all if he's just in the same lecture hall as him.
Where did I say that she could? Where did I say any of that?
Also, "she" would be a legal midget and you're all complete retards for still believing OP even after he tipped his hand to you. Great job advocating for fake women on the internet, kek.
My wife is 5'0" and she's the tallest woman in her family. I understand this man.
>tfw a friends first GF was 4' 9".
It happens m8. I seens eet.
OP here. I’ve tried to get her used to guns, but she’s a scared femoid. She was also too weak to even rack the slide on my Beretta APX Carry. Pepper spray might be ok, but I worry about it blowing back into her face if she has to use it indoors or against the wind.
Dont worry about that shit dude, any slight blowback will be much easier to deal with than the fucker with a faceful of it. Pepper spray is way to go here.
I mean what else is this tiny bitch gonna carry? A fucking telescoping night stick? A butterfly knife? Get her pepper spray. Its basically a must have to carry in a woman purse nowadays and is going to stop most people except for a crazed moron rapist murderer and in that case she's fucked no matter what anyway
>too weak to even rack the slide on my Beretta APX Carry
does she have fucking leukemia???
Its a young child, the college shit is to cover his ass
you underestimate how much stronger you are than most women
even if you are a lazy slob, you can easily overpower any woman that doesn't specifically do strength training
unless you weigh like 40 kg or something, of course
>Pepper spray is way to go here.
by far the best one
keep in mind that dumping a mag into a college kid isn't the same as dumping a mag into a random drug addicted moron
the kid has a fair chance to have rich parents with enough money to hire an army of lawyers
and now you're facing a manslaughter charge that you might win or might not even if you did everything (in principle) legally
>Pepper spray might be ok, but I worry about it blowing back into her face if she has to use it indoors or against the wind.
The hot new item is Pepper Gel. It doesn't create a big cloud, it's more like a liquidy silly string that stings just as much when on the face and will be pushed deep into their orifices when they try to wipe it off. Still just as effective but minimizes the chance of blowback
>caution: skin and eye irritant
Do burgers really need such warning labels? It's a fucking pepper spray/gel! That's the purpose.
Do flamethrowers have a "Caution, contents may be hot!" on them?
Its legal shit so they cant get sued by dumb moronHispanics looking for gibs
My understanding is that the gel is not good because they can wipe it off and then throw it back at you.
Then get her an LCR instead, nothing to rack, just lemon squeeze go bang
Unless the triggers on those are super light, I don't think a DAO revolver would be ideal for her. Like I said, she's really petite, so it would be tough finding a handgun that she could actually grip properly.
The original .38sp LCRs are mouse guns, slightly bigger than your wallet. If that don't fit her then I guess give up, it was designed for 80lb grammaws
The idiot is under the impression that women are exactly like men in every way except strength. This leads to many modern nu-males telling women to get a full size pistol because it's "easier to shoot", and although technically correct, what bitch carries a full size pistol around? What bitch won't limp wrist a semi-auto when even grown men manage to do it? And what women will be training to clear malfunctions like a pro? The most you can hope and ask for 99.9999% of women is that they don't have an ND, and point the gun in the right direction before pulling the trigger. Giving her a smol 5 shot revolver that she can't limpwrist and is as close to 100% reliability (at least with user induced malfunctions) is the best bet. She's not gonna be popping mass shooters in the grape from 30 yards away, she's gonna be shooting a would be rapist/murderer anywhere from point blank to 7 yards.
>She was also too weak to even rack the slide on my Beretta APX Carry
Ruger LCR loaded with +P.
no retard, ruger LCR loaded with powder puff wadcutters
>pepper spray does not work
bro record yourself taking hot load of sabre red on the face and i will send you 100 dolarydoos in crypto or whatever if you be able to stand still for 15 seconds afterwards
This is literally me rn.
This is why you need an OC/CS mix
OC just dont work too good on some people with certain genetics
In what sense does that video it “not working,” his lip starts quivering, he starts shaking his hands like an austistic child, he shakes his head telling himself not to cry on camera, and he then goes down with 0 resistance, probably hoping that custody will be a path to some relief
dude was trying so hard not to start sobbing
Buy her the foam stuff, much better and if you can score the shit that stains the face for days even better.
How do you know? You've never been murderraped so you can't make a judgment there. It could be fantastic.
>pepper spray does not work
I made 300 pound gigamorons cry from pepper spray at work multiple times. I'll uniron give you $100 if you record a vid taking a can of Sabre to your face.
>I made 300 pound gigamorons cry from pepper spray at work multiple times
same here hence my "90% stop, 10% run in circles, and once in a blue moon someone tries to fight it" comment
shit works fine, or it would't be on every cop and security guard belt on earth
I guarantee you have never been sprayed, been next to someone getting sprayed, or even 50ft away from someone getting sprayed.
I don't understand how people are arguing with you on this one. Pepper spray does not protect you, especially if your inside, in the wind, in the rain, or more than 10 feet away. Whomever started the myth that women should carry pepper spray was likely a rapist.
Pepper spray is s start, it's not magic but it takes the aggression out of 90% of fools that get some in the face.
Situational awareness: get a routine going so she at a minimum always tells ppl where she is going, when to expect her and how to reach her, don't go to sketchy places, have a buddy as much as possible, be alert, have campus cops on speed dial they will respond much quicker than useless TN cops. She should be on the lookout for this guy all the time
Third, get her a LCP, show her how to load it and take the safety off, put it in her bag and tell her literally never ever speak of it to anyone for any reason, just have it nearby
>She lives in a dorm
She's going to FUCK A LOT OF DUDES
This, if it actually is OP's GF it's pretty obvious "college" is just an excuse to get lots of pipe laid before she comes back home and makes him pay for her for the rest of his life.
Pics of gf to assess what her best means of defense are
You should be more worried about her getting FUCKED
as others have said, pepper spray
you could also just find this guy and beat his ass
You definitely can, it will just be painful (unless you're Asian)
racist here and I really don't get the connection for why asians get the qualifer. because of vietnam moron execution stuff? because bugmen = no pain? vagina stuff?
The joke was that raping a .38 would hurt because you’d have to force your dick into a tiny barrel to fuck it, but Asian dicks are so tiny that they’d fit inside no problem.
middle school chicks are much easier to control and more fun in bed op
>Jeff Epstein
It sounds like he's young and inexperienced so I recommend you find this boy and molest him to assert dominance. I'm not kidding, 99% of the time you have a young guy problem to do with your woman you can confidently approach him and behave sexually aggressively as an intimidation tactic.
He'll be a mixture of afraid and embarrassed and won't know what to do, she'll see you mocking him and if he does swing at you can swipe the floor with him.
>petite 4’8” womanlet
Why are you mating with a gnome. Find yourself a powerful woman who will give you strong sons.
White butt is thoroughly built, bred, and buttered for BBC.
The fat bastard gets the rest, leaving nothing for tiny white dick.
Chang are you seething over being btfo in the MacArthur thread earlier?
Get her pepper spray and in addition to reporting it to the Title 9 office, report the stalker to the police. Offer to go with her to the office and station to help her do this, a lot of people won't actually follow through unless they have backup.
Does she have roommates?
She's his now
As a sperg myself I find this thread highly offensive
>see a thread like this
>start comparing myself to the guy even though we're completely different
That low self esteem hitting
Psychology dictates that the three best weapons for "unarmed" fighting are a VERY bright flashlight during evening or night hours straight into the face, a pepper spray or other such stopper, and if all fails, electroshock of any kind. All would trigger fight of flight, especially if we are talking about some retard and not a roidbeast stalking her by moving the cars out of his way.
Flashlight for some reason suddenly dissuades attackers, there was some study as to why but can't be bothered to find it.
Pepper spray is fucking pepper spray.
A taser will work temporarily, but unless your gf is wheelchair-bound she can make her escape while the sperg writhes on the ground.
> A taser will work temporarily
A taser will, yes.
But not a shitty stun gun that she will inevitably buy because retarded.
This is the crux on why you should never recommend a taser or pepper spray for self-defense. Because while the high-end stuff may be effective, if someone is asking for help, they’re almost certainly not going to do their research and figure out what’s best. Nor are they going to spend the increased cost. No, they’re going to say “Well, Anon knows lots about self-defense, and he told me pepper spray is good. But the stuff he recommended is expensive, and I’m never really going to use it, so I’ll just buy this pink, rhinestone encrusted key-chain spray off of Amazon.”
If the boyfriend is posting on PrepHole, I'd expect him to at least do the research and not go for the pink one. It should not be the girlfriend buying those.
Not sure how more to help anyone asking for help. All three methods would work on paper. Flashlight is a given necessity, that one is a need no matter what, and fucking up a very bright flashlight is an achievement.
>I'd expect him to at least do the research and not go for the pink one. It should not be the girlfriend buying those.
90% of them are those dinky little handheld ones that attach to your keyring. I guess I'll just have to be sure I buy the pepper gel for her rather than spray so she won't do gif related.
>VERY bright flashlight
yes
>pepper spray
yes
>electroshock
I'm inclined to say "no" on this one. Stun guns are pain compliance tools with no reach and tasers are too finicky. I want tasers to be practical, but until someone successfully miniaturizes LIPC, it doesn't strike me as feasible.
>The hot new item is Pepper Gel
I think the prevailing wisdom is that gel doesn't take effect very quickly unless it hits the eye directly. A liquid stream provides a nice balance between efficacy and reduced risk of blowback.
that said, I carry a gel because that's what comes in a Walther PGS, and I don't want to fumble around with a can when I'm in a stressful situation.
>Do flamethrowers have a "Caution, contents may be hot!" on them?
I shit you not: our coffee cups do. There was a lawsuit about it and everything. My middle school class did a mock trial of this case, and even though "her lawyer's" ONLY question to EVERY witness was about the temperature of the coffee, they STILL awarded her damages. Personal responsibility is passé.
>I shit you not: our coffee cups do. There was a lawsuit about it and everything.
Your middle school is shit, that's the poster child for "seemingly frivolous lawsuit that actually has a point" the woman had 3rd degree burns to her crotch and needed skin grafts from that coffee.
They outlawed scalding hot coffee so now the warnings are just for retards, but w/e
With the facts of the case as presented to us, she shouldn't have. From what we were told, she was wearing sweat pants and decided to hold the coffee between her knees and open the lid to add shit, and the person she had driving her started moving. If they hadn't done that, she wouldn't have gotten burned.
Plus the severity of burn is a function of not just temperature but exposure time, and her sweat pants did a lot of the work making that happen.
Her entire case was "but the coffee was HOT!", while McDonalds' case was "of course; our customers don't want the coffee to be cold by the time they get where they're driving, and anybody with any sense should know not to open hot coffee between their knees in the car". With the case presented in that fashion, which is how it was taught to us, there's no way she should've won.
https://www.caoc.org/?pg=facts
For your reading pleasure.
Tldr:
No she wasn't doing anything stupid she just had a very common slip, which resulted in 3rd degree burns because her coffee was above 180F (That's 82C for normal people).
For comparison, anything above 150F will cause third degree burns to most adults in 3 seconds of skin contact.
HER LEG LITERALLY MELTED BECAUSE OF THIS.
That's why her lawyer just kept asking about the temperature. To show that McDonalds was routinely violating safety regulation by serving people coffee way above any reasonable temperature for consumption. I mean mcdonalds coffee pre-lawsuit was literally inedible for minutes because it was served hot enough to constitute a fucking weapon. The lawsuit was well fucking deserved.
> Mrs. Liebeck offered to settle the case for $20,000 to cover her medical expenses and lost income. But McDonald’s never offered more than $800, so the case went to trial.
And there's where I lose any support for McDonalds in this case. One of the largest food brands on the planet can't cough up even a thousand dollars to pay for someone's medical bills after one of their products caused a serious injury. This is the same company that doesn't fire people for taking literal baths in the dishwashing sink and let's workers work barefoot
It gets worse. McDonald's answer to being shown they had caused severe injuries to customers because of this at least 700 times (note: severe legally speaking means it requires immediate hospitalization to avoid death) was to say "well that doesn't matter we serve so many coffees some were bound to severely injure people."
No wonder the jury went ballistic after hearing that one. I mean, seriously, "who cares if I almost killed 700 people" said in a trial about how you keep almost killing people is about as tonedeaf as it gets.
I'm not saying you're wrong; I'm saying this information wasn't available to my class. American public school; go figure.
I'm not defending McDonald's here. I'm decrying the mentality of people who would hear the sensationalized version of events and still come to the same conclusion.
Have you been to PrepHole? Roidbeasts are the most likely oneitis autists.
"your" gf is gonna go get a train ran on her by other dudes anon. you should break up with her preemptively and save yourself the pain. like, she's gonna suck so much dick and let so many guys nut inside of her. she'll probably even have a threesome with some dude and another chick
just a normal hammer, it hurts very bad and you can plausibly explain carrying it
I was also thinking maybe a bike lock, but I doubt a tiny woman could use it effectively. Does she ride a bike OP?
If she hasn't loudly verbally screamed at him to leave her alone, told him to fuck off and stop being a rapey pervert, in front of other students and staff, she likes it. The kind of person who will hesitate to carry a self defense tool is the kind of person so timid as to get married to their fucking rapist as not to cause a scene. Break her of that. Force her to tell him to fuck off instead of just shrugging off his advances and waiting to get raped, and call campus police every time he tries to interact with her saying she's being harassed by a stalker. Otherwise, I'm sorry OP, she likes it.
This is the classic "steve from the office felt me up and made sexual comments and got 80% of the way to penetrating me, oh yeah this first happened 3 weeks ago and 4 times since, I just don't wanna get him in trouble or make a fuss." She's either functionally retarded and going to be raped daily by her future junkie boyfriend and his pals, or she likes the attention and wants more from you to satisfy her emotionally while the entire dorm satisfies her sexually. You can prevent this.
If you buy a spray/gel, buy two. Have her use one full can on a paper assailant so she knows what to expect as far as range and amount of chemical goes. Cycle out the old can every 8-12 months, and use the old can for practice. A pistol in an untrained hand is deadly to the owner of the hand, a can of pepper spray is useless to someone who's never used it
Your girlfriend listens to true crime podcasts and flicks her bean to thoughts of this guy abducting and murdering her. Rape is the most common female fantasy. The industrial revolution and its consequences have been a disaster for the human race.
Dump her and get a human sized mate so that you are no longer have to worry about her, 5'8 minimum. Humans have no business intermingling with gnomes and Halflings
Do you know who he is and what he looks like? Then stalk him and make him scared. Have fun with it.
I can't really stalk him because gf already compromised my opsec by sending him pics of us together to prove she has a bf. The guy is just a sperg who looks like a less-obese nikocado avocado, so hopefully the Title IX office will do their job and tell him to fuck off or kick him out of the school if he tries to proposition her again.
she obviously led him on or took something from him
She "led him on" by chit-chatting with him and letting him send her memes on IG or whatever. Apparently his sister also goes to the school and knows my gf somehow, so that's why she's hesitant to file a Title IX against him.
>inb4 OP is getting cucked and she secretly wants him
Like I said, he looks like nikocado and claims to be a virgin, but in true sperg pornbrain fashion, he tried to win my gf over by confessing his crush and saying that he would eat her pussy.
what a fuckin creep, meet up with him and have him force you into a self-defense situation
Only remotely masculine answer in this thread. OP needs to contact this dude face to face, tell him she's not interested and is creeped out by his attentions, and that he needs to fuck off.
Bro stop creepin' and go get laid, fucking virgin.
>Hyper masculine gigachad
>Implying he is platonic friends with women
At least get your larp together jfc.
Nah he's actually right. When you're an extrovert or forced to be in a ton of mixed gender social situations, you realize there's fairly attractive women you wouldn't touch with a 10 foot pole.
Issue is 90% of men don't share common interests so they don't get to experience it, imo.
I'm sorry you've never talked to an actual woman or had female co workers or been in a relationship, and that you're so desperate you cannot see women as anything other than something to try to fuck.
Anon that IS leading him on. I've said it time and time again that you can't just be friends with the opposite sex and yet women refuse to believe that. Teach her to be outright nasty to people like this and it'll save her a lot of shit later on. Don't try to be friends. This is exactly why it can't and shouldn't be done.
I mean yeah women have no common sense when it comes to this sort of thing. She told me she thought he wanted to be her friend because she's already friends with his sister or some shit like that. Sounds dumb but she's just your typical naïve college co-ed.
You're gonna have to sit her down and explain it. Men don't want to "just be friends" with a woman. They may claim to at first but its always under the hope that it becomes something more with time. After all, you didn't want to "just be friends" with her right? The only exception to this is if she is 110% sure she's dealing with an actual gay.
>I've said it time and time again that you can't just be friends with the opposite sex
I've told my wife this several times. One of her friends is active in twitch or something and has a ton of orbiters and always acts surprised when one of them proposes to her or asks her out. Also we were watching Downton Abby when the cute blonde maid was playing cards with that other guy after getting married and I said "She shouldn't be doing that" and my wife scoffed and then the next episode she got raped and I was like pic related
this
she's fucking him bro
You idiots dont know women, some women are too fucking passive dont or cant fucking say no to anyone for some fucking reason let me add you on facebook instagram sure etc they justify everything by mental gymnastics oh its harmless etc but those bitches always fuck shit up for any man with them you all need to know that over 50% of women are this stupid and avoid them find a bitch that says no its harder than you think.
Why did she do that? Just fucking tell him off and be done with it. Women do this shit playing around with creeps and then complain how scary it is to walk alone at night. Were the memes lefty discord shit? He sounds like that type of guy.
>her friend's brother started creepin
That's tough and explains a lot, I can see why she tolerate more bullshit from him and would hesitate to fuck up stalker's life and piss off her friend/the stalker's sister with an immediate complaint.
That also means she will probably hesitate to ventilate this guy, tase him, or hose him down with pepper spray if she has to.
Did she block him on everything and rat to his sister yet? She should tell the sister. Puts more pressure on the dude to fuck off and leave her alone.
She should probably also file for a protective order, though that's not going to do much besides help her out legally if she ever does have to defend herself. Cops do paperwork and count bodies, they don't rush over and save you.
Again, get a gun.
>She should probably also file for a protective order, though that's not going to do much besides help her out legally if she ever does have to defend herself
Ideally after she tells the sister what's going on and gives them a chance to work it out. If she just does that outright, the sister is going to be furious when the creep is legally barred from being on the same campus as her for two weeks and thus fails all classes that semester.
I'd second this: if he won't listen to her then he might listen to his sister
So let me get this strait:
>Exchanges memes with an friends autistic brother and chit-chats online
>He gets onitis and confesses his feelings for her
>He awkwardly tries to flirt with her when she's not interested
Is your gf 12 years old? Are you? This isn't some Title IX rapist problem, if she tells him to fuck off and blocks him and eventually he'll go away when the new season of Goblin Slayer drops. In the unlikely event she sees him at a party making her uncomfortable she can tell people and get him kicked out.
"hurr but what if he tries anything or what if she likes it"
Stop being insecure or you're going to get absolutely destroyed once you face some real competition.
You can be friends with the opposite sex perfectly fine so long as everyone is getting some, this just says more about you. Literally most friends groups have male and female members that can coexist and that's how most people meet partners, using friends of friends.
>As long as everyone is getting some
Not "just friends" then is it? Way to prove the point.
He means from other people. Virgins/singles of the opposite sex can’t be friends, but couples and people in relationships can.
OP here. It's not about him having a crush and oneitis, it's about him not fucking off after she's told him to leave her alone and that she's not interested. He also tried to flirt with her by offering to eat her out and grabbing his dick to show her how big it is. Thankfully my gf just told me she already has some of that pepper gel, even though it's probably one of those tiny keyring sprayers.
> You can be friends with the opposite sex perfectly fine so long as everyone is getting some
Don’t even need that. I ain’t getting nothing from nobody and I’m still perfectly capable of having female friends. Well other than the awkwardness that occurs when I want to make a racist and/or sexist joke, but don’t want come across as a card-carrying member of the Klan.
But that has nothing to do with women.
Hey look, I was right. She likes the attention. She enjoys this situation. And/or she's fucking retarded. Probably all 3
Lmao look at this virgin trying to justify himself.
>No dude she likes being stalked and/or deserves it
Go wash your hands in something other than cow urine.
>t. has empowered gf (cuck)
Pajeet seething
>Apparently his sister also goes to the school and knows my gf somehow, so that's why she's hesitant to file a Title IX against him.
Has she told his sister about it? If he won't listen to your gf, then perhaps he'll listen to her. If that fails too, then further measures might seem more reasonable.
>he tried to win my gf over by confessing his crush and saying that he would eat her pussy.
He has the spirit of a gigachad, now he just needs to go to the gym and also get the body of one.
>be op
>go ask the board full of deranged gun enthusiasts how to solve a problem
>they repeatedly suggest getting a gun and unloading into the problem area, regardless of how realistic this is, or what the consequences could be
>be surprised by this turn of events
op you might be retarded
If you know who the guy is, I suppose it'd hypothetically possible the girl's dad and brother and boyfriend could pay him a visit one night when he's out to have a polite, private chat about why stalking women is bad behavior.
All of the seething hapas who have never met an actual faithful woman crack me up.
Man this thread sure outed all of the thirdies and 4chan/leftypol/ (same thing these days) virgins who've never spoken to a woman and get their opinions from Andrew Tate. Go the fuck outside kids, go outside and talk to a real woman if you can manage to avoid sperging out for a single conversation. The amount of self-inserting Pajeets going "n-no women totally love being stalked, trust me bro, he just has to keep at it and she'll fuck him" is amazing to the point of hilarity.
Why are you dating a womanlet and why is this guy stalking, her?
Everyone involved in this story is retarded genetic dead ends.
>implying you wouldn't date pre-chuded Ellen Page
That's not how genetic dead ends work my guy. If he gets her pregnant, that's literally the opposite of one.
>inb4 the malformed offspring will be the dead end so this is a dead end
Alright but in that case, ALL lineages are dead ends except for one.
Screwdriver would do the trick. Philips preferred for stabbing ease but really anything with a long neck. Otherwise tell her to keep her phone on her and turn on gps or something. Also to tell a friend etc and travel with them.
Pepper spray too, obv.
Pepper spray, and I’d highly recommend you just rip the band aid off now because in a few months you’ll have the inevitable conversation about how she hates the distance and how she wants to have fun in college and see other people
"Follow your heart, your feelings in the moment can't be wrong" is the most subversive message ever aimed at women.
have you tried a gun??
>4'8" womanlet
>guns
She basically stopped growing in middle school. Most guns are sized for adult men. The best option is probably something like the S&W Shield E-Z or whatever it's called that's designed specifically for grannies with arthritis.
Tell her to stop being such a stuck up hoe and spread her legs a little, he has earned it
>dating a guy because you don't know legal advice is basically always free and trivial to get
hahahahahahaha retard
It reads weird but "helped me out with" in this sense implies he handled it all
for her. As in did it for free.
He got pussy. She basically paid him in sex like any prostitute does.
>She lives in a dorm and we’re in TN fwiw. A firearm is obviously out of the question.
anon, you have any idea how many people keep guns in their dorms?
Theoretically she could keep a gun in her dorm, since she has her own bedroom despite having three dormmates who share a living room, kitchen, and bathrooms. But like I've said, she's barely handled one of my guns before, and most guns are too big for her since she's even smaller than most women.
Could put it in something like pic related. Most colleges won't open drawers during routine searches and will only open them with police present with reasonable suHispanicion or probable cause (state and probably college dependent). As others have said, the M&P EZ may be nice, as well as the P238/P938 due to size. Could check for a campus shooting club, they might be able to help her with learning how to not suck with a gun.
also obligatory "cuck" comment here, girls *really like* others doing their homework for them
I dated a girl who was 145cm tall
I'm 190cm tall
That was fun
Anyways, unless he has a gun a big stabby knife will do the trick
>unless he has a gun a big stabby knife will do the trick
gf has a pocket knife, but I'm not sure how effective a stab from someone that small would be.
OP if you are going to kill this chick, try not to implicate PrepHole
OP is getting cucked and is in the denial phase.
OP here. It's pretty much the opposite, since I just took this guy's oneitis on a weekend trip to rearrange her guts in a luxury hotel while he was pathetically spamming her IG and snapchat. I think my gf even sent him photos of us in the car and at dinner together, so I sort of unintentionally NTRed this autismo loser.
Cringe LARP otherwise you would have said all that from the begining.
I didn't say it in the OP because it wasn't relevant to my gf protecting herself, and gays would accuse me of posting bait anyway. It's the truth though. The sperglord was literally DMing my gf shit like, "I want you to take my virginity," while I was balls deep in her lmao
Tell da pooleese
Anyway I'm in town and I can deal with this myself but I have one condition
You gotta tell me how to get a cute pretty wife of my own to love and adore
>frogposter
>not the autistic creepy man in the situation
>girlfriend is apparently in danger
>immediately going to inform PrepHole intimate details of a situation
>"I get pooosy guys"
Lemme guess you're some troll from 4chan whose gonna update this in a few days with some weird fantasy about his girlfriend fucking the creep. Get out of mommies basement, you're not cool for tricking the other SPED kids.
>he was pathetically spamming her IG and snapchat
>The sperglord was literally DMing my gf shit like, "I want you to take my virginity,"
Just block him. There is no reason for her to maintain contact with this guy.
I told her to do that, but I want her to keep a record of all their communications so there is evidence that he sexually harassed her and she told him to fuck off if she files a Title IX.
It will look better for the filing if you take screenshots of everything he's already said, save them, and break contact.
My guy, she's giving you the run around and you are taking the bait hard. Every moderately attractive woman has been harassed on social media, and you know what they do? They block the fucker.
There is clearly more going on behind the scenes that you are unable or unwilling to pick up on. The fact that she isn't taking the simplest and quickest way to solve her problem should already set off your bullshit detector.
1000x this. If she isn't blocking him there's a reason other than "she knows his sister" or some shit. she's probably (at least) keeping him around as a beta orbitor moral-booster which isn't a good sign on it's own. and like others have said soon enough you'll get the talk about the long distance relationship (meaning by the time it happens she's already fucking another dude)
Obvious.
>I think my gf even sent him photos of us in the car and at dinner together
Why is your gf trying to get you killed? Why is she showing him pictures of your face, what both of you are dressed like, and where you're going? Why is she telling him when she will be out of her dorm, and when you will be out of your house? Why is she telling him anything at all, OP? You know why.
She's letting him know she has a boyfriend and is happy with her boyfriend you unironic sperg.
>incel stalker is dangerous enough that it warrants carrying a weapon incase of an encounter
>incel stalker is so harmless that we should tell him our schedule
This is a lesbian relationship between two fucktarded women, both using women logic, there's no other explanation for OP's pure retardation
Dump your GF. There are so many red flags in your opening statement.
OP thinks his situation will somehow be different
I guess we all have to learn from our own mistakes.
Dump her and let her fend for herself, it's over, your relationship is not going to last there have been countless others who have tried to make their relationships work in college and they've always failed, you're not going to be any different. When you make a thread in a few months about how you wanna have a nice day because she dumped you for a guy in one of her classes I'll tell you to do it and you'll only have yourself to blame for ignoring my sagely wisdom. It's 100% over you need to cut your losses and save yourself the heartbreak.
Based. This guy gets it. The others anons itt don't touch enough grass and have autistic social skills. Socially adept men know it's never a good idea to date a girl who's going to college. Shit, it's never a good idea to date a girl long-distance in general. It's guaranteed cucking and heartbreak. I'd say save yourself, OP, but like the guy I just replied to said, I know you won't listen so ehh..
>op's gf is getting her guts creamed when he's not around so he copes on here about protecting her from one of her beta orbiters
cuck porn has rotted your brain
This. Most women are hopelessly naive and can't recognize obviously autistic creeps until they do something completely over the top weird. They also put their guards down in college because they are regularly meeting tons of new people every semester and trying to be friendly with everyone.
>A firearm is obviously out of the question.
Get her an underarm holster and teach her to keep her mouth shut and get her a Makarov
Otherwise le Gravity Knife
Find the guy and beat him to shit
This thread is fucking stupid. If she's getting stalked contact the authorities. If she's getting DM'd, block him on socials (there is no good reason she hasn't done this already). If all that fails either you need to kick the shit out of this guy or buy her hobbit lookin ass a gun. That's assuming OP isn't just lying.
>Block
Guys like this make new accounts and will find whatever cope they can to justify it. Same shit happened to my sister. The guy kept making new accounts and trying to friend her, with titles like "I know he (her husband) is blocking me on your account and you shouldn't let him do that".
So keep blocking him and document every new attempt for the cops so she can get a restraining order. Certainly better than doing nothing to dissuade him from blowing up her phone, which is what OP's gf has done thus far
He's fucking her
Dude you're only an hour away. Drive there and kick the shit out of him
Taser used to make a low key brutal variant for the civilian market called the pulse.
Its a fire and forget taser , slightly shorter range than your typical police x2. Will automatically start a sequence of having the target ride the lightning for a min or two while you run away. Gun is bluetooth enabled and upon firing will call emergency services and provide your location and info (when properly pre setup with your phone).
Can also fire in the dry drive fire stun gun mode
Tell her to CCW a mosin
🙂
Fuck off vatnik
>there anything she can carry to protect herself
His child
This thread is full of people who think pepper spray is some sort of joke
My dudes, go out and get peppersprayed. You are on the floor, screaming in agony because every fucking cell in your eyeballs is emitting the signal "extreme death pain".
If some schizo is stalking your GF, buy her a small portable canister of liquid pain. Problem is solved, unless the fucko comes at her with a gun and shoots first.
I've yet to hear anything negative about pepper spray from anyone who has actual experience with it (aside from blowback). If you haven't ever been sprayed, I don't give a fuck what your opinion on it is. It's like people who shit talk anything smaller than a .45 but have never been shot by anything larger than an airsoft gun
I have been sprayed.
Don’t get me wrong, it sucks and I wouldn’t volunteer for it again. But it’s not really instantly incapacitating
OP you have to arrange a meeting and kill him in self-defense. End of discussion. Your gf has no common sense
>firearm is out of the question
Anon get her a hand grenade, no one fucks with a hand grenade.
If you are in America black powder doesn't count, get her a flintlock, I'm giving you two options.
>TN but firearm out of the question
>i tolD hER To REpOrT HIm
>Not defending your woman
Jesus christ dude, the sperg sounds like more of a man than you, wtf. You should just hand her over.
She’s already riding stalker dick, bro.
If you want to keep control of the situation you better find the fucker that's messing with her and put some fear into him. Doesn't matter how you do it but if you don't do something you deserve what you get.