I [20 M] got invited by a longtime friend [21 F] to go camping, just us two. What shall I do?

We've known each other for a few years now and she's always been a bit flirty with me, but never had she been anywhere near this bold. While I would love to go camping and I like her company quite a lot, I have noticed my friend does have a tendency to get more touchy and overall affectionate when the two of us are alone. Which on our potential trip would be pretty much always.

I have never found her flirting to be a problem and I even flirt back oftentimes, but with us two spending so much time together, she'd probably get even more courageous.

This is where I get a bit confused. What if she makes moves on me to the point where I begin feeling uncomfortable and feel forced to knock her off? Knowing her, I'm sure something like that happening would make the rest of our trip really awkward, which would be the last thing I'd want...

And am I just being paranoid about this? Maybe she really is just interested in going camping and chose me because of our similar interests and the fact that I can provide a tent and have some experience with camping. And bringing up these concerns of mine to her beforehand would only turn the whole thing weird from the get-go in that case...

Any help would be appreciated, and I thank anyone who's kind enough to share their opinion in advance!

  1. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    tell her you are gay and she will stop flirting with you, problem solved, and then you can enjoy your time together without weird sexual tension

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This. Just be honest.

  2. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous
  3. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    This has to be a woman writing this.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      #
      Bold of you to assume there would ever be a woman without ulterior motives on PrepHole...

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        >on PrepHole

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      theres one anon who just shitposts hardcore on PrepHole, its the same writing style every time, he just makes threads of extremely low quality but still barely related to outdoors so he doesn't get banned, he's been here for like fucking 2 years now

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        Oh, that guys straight up a government styled op. They're there to break down civil discourse and shit up things. Potentially privately funded, but definitely by design. Main goal is to lower the overall quality of boards and dissuade actual discussion. There's one in every board. Multiple in the busier places like 4chan and such.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >There's one in every board.
          bunkertrannies

  4. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Stop being a gay and get laid while camping, Jesus Christ I dreamt about this happening to me all my life and here some retard comes complaining

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      This has to be a woman writing this.

      There’s no way this isn’t the case. Just seems like a sneaky way to extract information from guys, but it doesn’t make any sense because it’s just not in our nature, unless she’s really just not attractive.vfdy0

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        She's not particularly attractive, about a 4-5 out of 10. But even if she was hotter I'd still not want things to move at lightning pace, it's just the way I am.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          I suspect you may actually be a dude (If not, then whatever). Just do what woman do, play the “I’m not looking for a relationship right now,” or “I really value our friendship.” But obviously something that fits your guys background the most, that and give examples (like history together) of why you mean what you’re saying, that way you don’t just come off as dismissive and more authentic.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            First of all, thanks for the actual piece of advice. I do like her as more than "just friends" as I do return her flirting sometimes, it's just that she's a bit of an all or nothing kind of person, unlike me. It's the potential pace she would advance at that makes me reticent, since I genuinely don't wish for her to become hurt by me refusing to advance things so fast. Nor do I wish for the camping trip to become an awkward mess...

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              Then the same advice, but restructured to fit your intentions and honest feelings on the matter. If your authentic and don’t seem dodgy about it, it will go a lot further than just straight out ignoring her advances. Remember to give examples of things you appreciate about her, and really mean it. That, and don’t make a big deal out of it, just play it cool.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                *if you’re authentic

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                That does seem like a great compromise. I think I'll try just that if things get steamy too fast for my liking. Even though I know she'd get pretty disappointed if things played out that way. Thanks a bunch, King.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                You’ll probably have better luck in /adv/ next timing, but enjoy camping. You’ll figure it out.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          >about a 4-5 out of 10
          fill your hydration pack with vodka instead of water, everything will be fine

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Is it religious thing? Like do you believe people should only have sex in marriage? Because that I respect and approve, but if you don't hold that belief, you're an absolute gay for not wanting to fuck her. Close your eyes and let her do the work if she's ugly.

          • 2 weeks ago
            Anonymous

            It is partly for religious reasons, yes. While I'm not closed to having sex before marriage, I would never be able to have one night stands and such things. I'd only ever have sex with someone I'm really intimate with.

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              religion is a sham

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                ebic reddit moment

            • 2 weeks ago
              Anonymous

              You said you liked her more than a friend.
              I'm kind of confused because you said she was 4-5. 4 is where ugly starts, 5 is not ugly nor attractive. 5 are plain girls. Maybe she's a 5 pushing 6? Think about it.
              Is she promiscuous? If not, I think you might be looking at potential wife. If she's not hideous, I'd say go for it, you're better off with a 5 or a 6 than an 8 or a 9. The latter all ride CC and have terrible personalities, 5s and 6s are more likely to be good women and not have their cunts look like ham sandwich.
              If you like her and she's not really ugly I'd say go for it unless you really want to keep pre-marital purity thing, in which case get closer to her physically and mentally without fucking so she knows you're building up to a relationship.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                She's not the promiscuous type fortunately, though I have noticed her searching for some form of intimacy more and more this past year. To the point where she even asked her grandma for tips on how to a good partner (she told me this herself, and I'm by no means oblivious to its subtext). As for looks, I've known her for so long I can't even objectively assess that anymore. They aren't that important to me actually, since her personality is one of the best I've seen on a girl (reason why we haven't lost contact throughout the years).

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >though I have noticed her searching for some form of intimacy more and more this past year. To the point where she even asked her grandma for tips on how to a good partner (she told me this herself, and I'm by no means oblivious to its subtext).
                She's 21, she's looking for a mate. Asking grandma suggests she's shit at interacting with males. That's a good thing, she might even be a v.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Wouldn't surprise me if she is honestly. I've never heard anything about an ex and she's usually quite open about that sort of stuff. Though honestly, I couldn't care less about it even if she isn't. I'd only start making judgements if she had like 3+ previous partners.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >I'd only start making judgements if she had like 3+ previous partners.
                dude... where is this heaven you live in where women with a single digit body count still exist?

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                It's called southern Europe. The place where people are either on the single or the triple digits.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                where the fuck are the single digits?!

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Not in Czech Republic, that's for sure.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >though I have noticed her searching for some form of intimacy more and more this past year. To the point where she even asked her grandma for tips on how to a good partner (she told me this herself, and I'm by no means oblivious to its subtext).
                She's 21, she's looking for a mate. Asking grandma suggests she's shit at interacting with males. That's a good thing, she might even be a v.

                Goddamn dude I envy you. I hope I find a grill like that one day

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                This has to be bait, but I'll bite. I'm the porno greentext anon and while I *do*, in fact, enjoy the idea of camping alone with a qt 3.14159/10 longtime friend who will flirt with me at the campfire and eventually tear open my one-person tent later that night and devour my cock like a grizzly who just caught a salmon, slobbering over every inch of it in a sexual frenzy while moaning in delight, I was also in a similar spot with a girl I cared about, and curiously despite my perennial horniness I declined to have sex with her, because I am the same kind of dork who will think about how feasible it is to have a long-term relationship before sticking my pepee into someone. So I understand you even without the religious angle. However I will warn you that I deeply regretted that decision ever since, not because of the (probably terrible, as she was a trad-oriented virgin who couldn't even kiss properly) sex I missed out on, but because I should've committed to that girl and married her. Instead I went like n-no let's not ruin our friendship. Know that things may never be the same and you will may not stay in touch once this is over if she makes a move and you reject her. You seem to like this chick but you're scared of commitment, maybe she's too distant or you have some other kind of fear and you're pussying out.
                If this is NOT the case then do not go camping alone with her.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Thank you for replying despite thinking my question may be bait. Honestly, you've summed up how I feel really well. If things do advance to the point where I'll have to either take the plunge or turn her down, I feel like refusing may greatly damage our relationship, and she'd feel uncomfortable hanging out with me from then on.
                As for regretting my decision, there's really no way to know the future, so I can't really say whether that'll happen. I may meet the love of my life next year or never find someone who's available and who I can relate to on this level for the next 10. And she does have her faults, just like everyone, so it's also not like she's a perfect match for me either...
                Also relevant is that we're going to different colleges, so we'd only be able to meet in person once or twice a week, which would potentially make having a proper relationship a challenge.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >Also relevant is that we're going to different colleges, so we'd only be able to meet in person once or twice a week
                Yeah man I think you are in a similar situation as mine many years ago. This girl I regretted turning down, she lived rather far away and we would've been through a LDR. I was already burned twice with LDRs so my feelings were influenced by that. This girl was not exceptionally attractive although I liked her, and she was not a 100% perfect match for me in terms of interests, etc., but in hindsight I'll tell you that this shit is also irrelevant in the long run. I've been with 8/10s who were intelligent, brilliant, same interests, etc. a "perfect match" but after scraping the surface a little bit we were not compatible at all, and eventually they cheated on me or went through some other vapid change of mind. You don't meet the love of your life like that on a silver platter. When you meet someone is like finding a fertile field or a spot to build something onto, you build and grow things on top of that. You may be tempted to get a spot that's already flowering and has a home build over it, but the foundations may crumble later. The love of your life is a girl that wants to be with you and is willing to work with you despite differences.
                I don't want to sell you on this girl because I don't know her and I might be completely wrong, but I believe you should think about what she means to you without the ifs and buts.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I don't think LDR would ever work for me, as I value proximity quite a lot, but in my case we would fall somewhere on the middle of that scale, so I don't feel repelled at the idea of starting a relationship in these conditions.
                As for her as a long-term partner, it's honestly hard for me to say, as she has a bunch of faults, but none that go past being little annoyances. But I do think she's the type who tries to work through differences and listens to others, even if she heavily disagrees. So, as a long-term partner, she certainly isn't bad at all from what I've seen. My real problem is indeed one of commitment, I think, as I don't think I'm ready to reciprocate her feelings. That is, if I'm reading her intentions correctly.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >ldr
                100% of the time it means the chick bangs someone on the side while the dude jerks off to memories of her

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                Unfortunately, that's also my impression. One of my friends wisely calls them, cuck distance relationships.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                yeah LDRs are shit. even if they work at first they fall apart really fast

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                >As for regretting my decision, there's really no way to know the future, so I can't really say whether that'll happen. I may meet the love of my life next year
                This never happens. There is no "the one", there is no one you are "supposed to" be with. You will never meet the love of your life, you need to make her it. Relationships are built, not discovered.
                If you think this girl is a suitable mate, then mate the fuck up, m8.

              • 2 weeks ago
                Anonymous

                I didn't mean "the love of my life" in that corny way. I meant it as in someone really compatible with whom I can easily imagine spending a lifetime with. Someone who I feel really into instead of just kinda into.

  5. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Mods need to clean up these incel fantasy threads. This isn't /PrepHole/

  6. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    >mmm anon *glog* mmm yes *slorp* spelunk my throat anon! *glok glok*
    >(no! nooo! not the sweaty tent sex! this can't be happening!)

  7. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You remind me of a good friend I made at a place I used to work at, OP.
    Kind of surreal really

  8. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    OP, go camping and make it a point to discuss some topics like what each of you think you'd be like as a parent, if you ever want to have kids, what you are looking for in a mate, etc. You may already know the answers you're just trying to steer the conversation in the right direction.

    After your talk, then make up your mind. Personally, I say if she makes a move roll with it and make it a good experience. She seems like a great friend and a potentially good wife. Use this trip as a good excuse to explore the boundaries of your relationship with her.

    DO NOT stress about how you would make it work through college. DO NOT try to make plans to make it work.

    Just relax and slow down and enjoy life that trip. And If she throws herself at you, take the gift of her sweet, young pussy and enjoy it.

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      As tempting as just living the moment and enjoying whatever opportunity arises sounds, our actions do have their natural consequences. Were I to go that far with her, it's certain she'd tell her mother about it (who I've seen a number of occasions already), instantly making our relationship semi-official.
      So if I did accept to go all the way with her, I'd likely have to make a decision between turning it official or being an absolute prick by escaping any potential responsibilities.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        You can fuck a girl without it being official moron.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        g
        My proposed scenario leads to a very honest encounter. She may realize you're more of a thoughtful and serious person than she wants or find it more attractive. By leading the trip with some quality discussion, you're laying out a lot. Proceed with honesty and just have a good time.

        • 2 weeks ago
          Anonymous

          Now that I analyze it better, your suggestion does sound excellent. It will probably make her see me in a more serious light if she's not looking for anything serious and be very reassuring if she is. And if she somehow (which I honestly doubt) really is only interested in camping, it'll not only put the subject of dating/relationships on her head but also make for some lovely banter. Many thanks, mate.

  9. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You [20 M] should go back to plebbit

  10. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    do you want her to be able to smell your balls?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Yes

  11. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    OP you are a pathetic bitch and you don’t deserve your dick and balls

    Just go on the camping trip with this bitch and the moment she starts touching you, rip her clothes off and raw dog her from behind. Spank and pound this bitch while pulling her hair and say shit like “yeah is this what you wanted you dumb slut?” as she’s moaning in ecstasy.

    Then after you’ve sprayed your load all over her face, tell her to cook some dinner as you go wash your cock in the river

    Now is this what life is about? Yet you’re here bitching? Fuck sake

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      He's a got a small dick which is why he's clinging onto religion as an excuse for not having to present his penis

  12. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Glad I don't have the mental illness OP has

  13. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    You won't ruin your friendship if you become an item with her, dude.

  14. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    do not post about women do not speak about women go to /adv/ have a nice day

  15. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    Every time this post is read, all vaginas within a 50mi radius dry up worse than the Sahara.

    do you want to fuck her, or not anon?

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Above all else, I want to have fun on the trip and not hurt the feelings of someone I care about. Keep in mind she's a longtime friend, not some thot I met last week. Going so far as to have sex with her and then denying her a relationship would sour our relationship in a flash.

      • 2 weeks ago
        Anonymous

        If you truly care about her, proceed honestly and just have some fun, man. You're overthinking this way too much. Pack some rubbers just in case and keep an open mind.

  16. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    It's probably not worth going on the trip if you don't intend to fuck entire time. Just make up an excuse.

  17. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    this is all bait isn't it
    I got memed into replying to bait by gay OP

  18. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    PrepHole isn´t you fucking personal blog you fucking gay.
    Go to /soc/ or some shit.

  19. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    rape her

  20. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    post a face pic of her, with the eyes blanked out or something, if she doesn't use PrepHole she'll never find out. i want to see just what you consider a '4 or 5 out of 10'

    • 2 weeks ago
      Anonymous

      Wouldn't risk it. I know her older brother lurks somewhere in here and he would instantly recognize me from sharing her picture.

  21. 2 weeks ago
    Anonymous

    MODS

    delete this shitty off topic thread holy fuck

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